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Saturday, October 10, 2020

I might sign up for Match.com tomorrow.

I've been looking at pictures of myself, and I've come to the realization that I am truly ugly. I might look okay on my SparkPage, but pictures can be deceiving. I think I was just born ugly. People have called me ugly more than once, and it hurts. It's really hard to be an ugly woman in today's world.

I have to remember, though, that my worth comes from within, and not from my outer appearance. I have some good qualities; I think I have a nice voice, and I'm kind.

I feel more insecure with men than with women. So, I might look for women first.
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    You need different people in your life. I can’t believe people tell you that you are ugly. You do not need them in your life! And don’t tell yourself that either. Would you say that to a friend? You are a work in progress. Look in that mirror again and see yourself as beautiful. Because you are! emoticon
    51 days ago
    We see ourselves with our own eyes only, not how others see us.
    Keep working on your confidence and building self worth, it can change the picture your have of yourself in your mind's eye. Best wishes.
    51 days ago
    All I can do is echo what others have said. I see a beautiful young woman with a nice smile, and know from all you've posted over time, that you are a kind-hearted, caring, loving person. I am sorry that others have, for whatever reason, called you ugly, because you are NOT. I was called fat and ugly when I was young, but my Mom told me, "You are NOT . . . you are the way God meant you to be and He doesn't create junk!" Hmmm . . . had to think about that one for awhile.

    51 days ago
  • EISSA7
    Your perception is your reality....although others can tell you that you are pretty, attractive, beautiful etc., IF you don’t see it, it doesn’t matter!! You are so correct, your self worth comes from within and has nothing to do with physical features. Continue to work on your feelings of insecurity and empowerment to be the best,
    unique YOU!! Other than if you’re clean and neat, people that matter don’t care what you look like! Stop putting yourself down!!! emoticon
    51 days ago
    emoticon Everything is beautiful in its own way emoticon and so is everyone. Your beautiful inside and out and it looks good on you. Words can wound, believe in yourself. emoticon
    51 days ago
  • LINDA!
    No way, are you ugly. When I was younger, I was called ugly as well. It still stings if I think about it. But as you said, beauty on the outside fades. Beauty on the inside stays. Also, remember we are often comparing ourselves to celebrities that have the luxury of being airbrushed. Is that what a woman really looks like? No. Please try to focus on all that you have to offer. You will find that the better you feel about yourself, the more attractive people will find you.
    52 days ago
    I just looked at your profile pic. You certainly are NOT ugly in any sense of the word! Remember...God doesn't make junk...we're all beautiful!
    52 days ago
    OMG You are NOT ugly! Get that out of your head right now!!!


    Please stop comparing yourself to other people, you are you. I think maybe you are doing that. AND don't listen to anybody who said you are ugly. I felt ugly for YEARS because kids in school made fun of my buck teeth, and I wouldn't smile in pictures because of it. Guess what? Someone I know told me to go ahead and smile, because my rare smile was genuine and the room lit up when I did it.

    Believe in yourself, emoticon

    52 days ago
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