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11/21/20

Saturday, November 21, 2020

This is going to be a "vent" post so I'll put that out now in case you dont want to read any further.
Okay, that out of the way..............
What do you do when you feel your whole world is coming unraveled.
I wish my wife would just come out and tell me.
She leaves for work an hr plus early, calls and said it was a really busy day and gets home late. Being called by first name instead of honey etc. Its not that I haven't gone thru this before. I'm just too old and too tired to start over at 62. I will admit there are days when I dont get all the house work planned for that day. But. I try my best . I guess that and my weight that is putting her off. I asked her if she would think about going to counseling with me. Hell no ( and those are the only clean words that came out of her mouth).
I really am at the end of my rope. I just dont have anything left.


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  • NEWSPARKDEBBIE
    I have to agree with KATRINAAKAT23 and DCHANCE6......

    If she will not go with you to counseling, then try to have a talk with her and then set up a meeting with a counselor and if you can not drive yourself, then arrange with your insurance to get transportation to and from the appointment if its available. They are doing counseling appointments on line now.
    52 days ago
  • KATRINAKAT23
    If she won’t go for counseling you can go yourself. It might be beneficial and help you cope with whatever is going on. Good luck.πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’™πŸ’š
    54 days ago
  • BJAEGER307
    emoticon Hope all this gets resolved for you.
    54 days ago
  • DCHANCE6
    I think maybe what you should actually do is ask her. Then you will actually find out what's up. You may be assuming stuff that isn't true and torturing yourself for nothing. Hang in there. Everything will be ok.
    55 days ago
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